The first man a girl falls in love with is her father. He determines what type of woman she becomes and what type of man she selects. Even in his absence. If a girl doesn’t know her father, she will create one in her head. She will create an image of who her ideal daddy is and how much he would love her if only he could.
Life for a girl without a father can go several ways.
1. She can go in search of a father figure; selecting older men who she feels can take care of her. She might be a little needy or demanding.
2. She can become bitter before her time not trusting any many with her heart. No matter how much you love her she won’t feel worthy.
3. She can move from man to man trading her body for what she thinks is love.
4. She can pretend everything is fine. She is just waiting for you to abandon her.
Of course there are women who will say they didn’t have a father and they turned out just fine. Do you believe that?
If a man is actively INVOLVED in his daughter’s life he will ultimately help her make healthy choices later in life. It isn't enough to be around, you have to be involved.
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